With a brief break in our schedules, open seats on a direct flight from MSP to HNL (Honolulu), and gracious hosts--my family and I were able to escape to Hawaii for vacation.
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Photo Credit: Jessica Fant |
This was only my second time in Hawaii; the first visit played an integral part in my
decision to begin flight training back in 2013. So I'd like to say that Hawaii has become a place of much reflection and rest for us, and hopefully a place we can continue to fold into our family traditions over the years.
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Photo Credit: Jessica Fant |
During our last visit, I called my Grandpa from Diamond Head because I recalled how
he had grown up on the islands. In fact, as I spoke with him, I learned that
my great great grandparents moved to the Hawaiian islands from Portugal. "Hilo Grandma" lived on the Big Island (Hawaii--where all that volcanic activity is happening that you've heard about in the news). Her son, my great grandfather, was a Forest Ranger in the National Forest there. We heard stories about how Hilo Grandma would make Portuguese Sweet Bread in a mud oven with giant banana leaves, and how my grandpa was caddying at a golf course on the Big Island when the bombs hit at Pearl Harbor. They later moved to the island of Oahu. When Sara and I visited in 2013, we stopped by the home to meet a few relatives and even ate an avocado from an avocado tree that my great grandfather planted! Surprised and mostly unaware of all these family connections in Hawaii, I have greatly enjoyed learning more about the history of the islands and how
three generations of my family called Hawaii home.
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Photo Credit: Jessica Fant |
This trip was not so much about career reflections as it was about faith and community reflections with our close friends who were a part of our Bible study when they lived in Minnesota several years ago. My current seniority has made it difficult to get the weekends off--which as a result means I have not been able to be a part of a local church in the way I would like to. The time in Hawaii and conversations with our friends allowed me to be reflective and leave with a renewed spirit to be intentional about the way in which I can bid for a schedule that allows more opportunities to be a part of a local church.
It was also a good "moment" for me to reflect on fatherhood. My friend Jonathan asked me what I hope for my grandchildren and the question caught me off guard! I hadn't really thought of such a thing--even for my sons, other than your basic
I hope they grow up to be good men and follow God. Noble aspirations, but at least something I'd like to think more about. His question has challenged me to think more deeply on these topics.
Our family has been through so much change in the past few years it has felt hard to think beyond what's happening next month, let alone a couple generations from now.
But I think that is what breaks are for... time and space to be reflective, maybe realize some regrets you have, but move forward and make changes, think more deeply on what you believe and how to align your choices more closely with those beliefs. And what a gift it was for us to do all that in Hawaii... thank you to our Hawaiian Uncle and Auntie Keizer for hosting us and good food and time spent with our friends, the Fants.
These photos became a fast treasure to our family from Jessica, and so I gratefully overshare with you a bit of the joy we had on this trip.
All photos by Jessica Fant, used with her permission